Dallas Hope Charities passionately shares the transformative journeys of LGBTQIA+ youth overcoming homelessness. These narratives serve as beacons of resilience and hope, showcasing the strength and courage of each individual.
Within this section, you’ll discover firsthand accounts of LGBTQIA+ youth overcoming adversity and finding hope amidst homelessness. Each story highlights the unique challenges these individuals face and underscores the transformative impact of our transitional living programs.
Explore how Dallas Hope Charities actively makes a tangible difference in the lives of LGBTQIA+ youth through our comprehensive support services and community partnerships. These stories vividly illustrate the power of collective action in creating brighter futures for all.
As you delve into these inspiring narratives, we invite you to actively join us in our mission to empower LGBTQIA+ youth and create inclusive communities where everyone can thrive. Together, we can rewrite the narrative and build a future filled with dignity, stability, and hope for all.
At 22 years old, a young transgender woman found herself navigating the rough terrain of homelessness from the young age of 18. Kicked out by transphobic parents, she spent years on the streets, struggling to find a safe place to sleep and something to eat each day. Despite the challenges, she maintained her resilience and optimism.
“I was on the streets on and off. It wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be, but finding a place to sleep each night was tough,” she shared. “I spent my days at Starbucks, often getting free coffee when they made a mistake. It was little things like that which helped me get by.”
Her life took a turn when a friend on Discord recommended Dallas Hope Charities (DHC). They looked up the organization online and thought it would be a good fit. Within a week of applying, she was welcomed into the Hope Center.
“The process of getting into the Hope Center was very quick. My first day there was just a huge relief,” she recalled. “Jordan, one of the staff members, made the experience so welcoming and comfortable. It was unlike any other place I’d been.”
At the Hope Center, she found more than just a roof over her head. She discovered a community that cared about her well-being and provided the resources needed to rebuild her life. “I feel a lot more energized most days. I have more ambition than I’ve ever had,” she said. “Homelessness tired me out and left me with little hope, but now I feel refreshed and relieved.”
Her goals for the time at the Hope Center are clear. She is focused on transitioning and has already had her first appointment. She also hopes to take advantage of the culinary classes offered, despite her self-proclaimed inability to cook. “I burn water,” she joked.
This story is a testament to the impact of Dallas Hope Charities. From feeling unsafe and hopeless on the streets to finding relief and renewed ambition at the Hope Center, this journey highlights the importance of providing supportive and affirming environments for LGBTQIA+ youth.
Impact on Stakeholders
Your support makes it possible for individuals like this young woman to transform their lives. By contributing to Dallas Hope Charities, you help provide a safe and affirming space where LGBTQIA+ youth can find relief, hope, and the resources they need to succeed. Together, we can continue to make a profound difference in the lives of those who need it most.
Amidst the journey of self-discovery and resilience, one individual found their way to Dallas Hope Charities, seeking refuge from a tumultuous family situation. Facing challenges familiar to many young adults striving for independence, this individual’s journey is a testament to the transformative power of support and opportunity.
“Things got tricky when I started living a lifestyle my parents didn’t agree with. They seemed to want me to rely on them for everything, from cars to housing. Plus, they weren’t too keen on me using public transport, which made it even harder to break free.”
Originally aiming to break free from a lifestyle that didn’t align with parental expectations, they faced resistance and manipulation tactics. With the unwavering support of understanding friends, they found their way to the Hope Center, where they discovered a sanctuary away from parental control.
“Eventually, they resorted to kicking me out, hoping I’d come crawling back under their control. But thanks to some supportive friends, I managed to steer clear of their manipulation tactics.”
At Dallas Hope Charities, they found more than just a safe space. They found a community dedicated to empowering individuals with essential life skills and resources. From financial literacy to navigating public transportation, mentors like Bob provided invaluable guidance and support, paving the way for future success.
“Now that I’m here, I’ve found solace in having a safe space away from my parents.”
The impact of partnerships with companies like US Bank and Mercedes Benz extends far beyond financial support. Through internships and vocational opportunities, Dallas Hope Charities is building pathways to employment and independence. These partnerships offer more than just job opportunities—they offer hope for a brighter future.
“Tamika has been a driving force in pushing me to explore new opportunities and challenges, sometimes even more than I thought possible. Having someone like her around has been incredibly motivating and has helped me grow in ways I never imagined.”
As this individual continues to navigate their journey towards independence, they express gratitude for the opportunities provided by Dallas Hope Charities and its generous donors. From events like Chip For Hope to partnerships with organizations like Topgolf, every contribution plays a vital role in creating a supportive and inclusive community.
“My dad wanted me to study either business or STEM and basically put that as control, but, you know, the way he made it seem like it was all my choice, it was like he had this subtle way of influencing me. It’s hard to explain, but it felt like he was constantly manipulating the situation.”
“It’s because when you have an environment like that, they say education is the key out the door. But when that key is held hostage, you’re gonna have to break the door down.”
“They thought, ‘Oh, no. He’s rich. It’s gonna be easy for him.”
“They blame you for the failure. And when you set yourself up for success, they bring in as much chaos as possible to punish you for it.”
As Dallas Hope Charities continues to expand its network and resources, individuals like this one are empowered to overcome obstacles, pursue their dreams, and build a future filled with hope and possibility.
When the resident first arrived at the Hope Center, he was navigating the stormy waters of life with nowhere to anchor. Disowned by his family due to a complex mix of familial expectations and his sexual identity, Pranav was an international student facing an uncertain future. “I came to the US to get my undergrad,” Pranav recalls, “but familial issues led me to be disowned. I was suddenly on my own, trying to figure out finances and everything else, while dealing with the loss of my family’s support.”
Despite these challenges, the resident’s journey is a testament to resilience and hope. He discovered Dallas Hope Charities through a referral from the now-defunct gender center at UT Dallas. “The Hope Center program is where I could focus on getting my school stuff in order, my documentation in order, and keep working,” Pranav explains. The Hope Center provided him with more than just a roof over his head; it offered breathing room—a space to gather his thoughts and plan his future without the immediate pressures of housing and food insecurity.
The resident’s initial impressions of the Hope Center were positive. “It was a place where I didn’t have to worry about the biggest expense—rent. It gave me time to think about my next steps,” he says. However, life took another challenging turn when he accepted a job that eventually led to exploitative working conditions. “I was working long hours with no pay and felt trapped,” the resident shares. Recognizing the red flags of his situation, he left the job, returned to India to renew his visa, and reapplied to UT Dallas and the Hope Center.
Returning to the Hope Center was a turning point. The resident resumed his studies and continued his passion for AI and software development. “I’m into AI and statistics, and I want to pursue further studies in these fields,” he says. The Hope Center’s support, especially the Room For Change mental health services, proved invaluable. “Having an outlet with qualified professionals helped me focus on being productive and addressing my panic and fears,” the resident reflects.
The resident’s life has significantly transformed since his time at the Hope Center. “I’m more focused on long-term goals. I can plan for the future rather than worrying about immediate survival,” he notes. He now works at one of the best steakhouses in cities across the U.S, where he enjoys learning new skills and building a stable future.
Throughout his journey, the resident has found community and mentorship at the Hope Center. “Even though the other residents are much younger, I feel I can provide some mentorship and support,” he says. This sense of community, coupled with the Center’s support, has allowed the resident to navigate life’s challenges with renewed strength and hope.
The resident’s story is a powerful reminder of the impact of Dallas Hope Charities. For individuals facing adversity, the Hope Center offers more than just shelter—it provides a lifeline to stability, growth, and a brighter future. Through your support, stories like this continue to unfold, showcasing the transformative power of compassion and community. Thank you for making a difference.
Board of Directors, Board Chair
Before being asked to serve as the Board Chairman, Rex had been a member of Dallas Hope Charities’ board since April 2021. A recurring investor in media and emerging technologies, Rex seems to prefer working behind the scenes. He has consistently poured his resources into companies, individuals, charitable organizations, and civic causes alike out of his love for the city of Dallas and heart for serving the community.
He envisions the role of board chair as primarily a supportive one. Rex sees Dallas Hope Charities’ CEO, Tamika Perry, as a strong leader and looks forward to working closely with her on expanding the transitional housing program and various programmatic partnerships.
Addressing the recent renovation of the Hope Center—DHC’s transitional living center—Rex stated “the hope is we’ve renovated a place where our participants can really get a firm footing, get involved in the programs that we offer, and have a great launching pad for their lives.
Rex knows firsthand the impact that a safe, affirming house can provide. For over 20 years he and his partner Chris personally opened their home to folks in need of a place. Through word of mouth and referrals, Rex and Chris provided housing and mentorship while the individuals went through school, securing a profession, or simply stabilizing their life. Reflecting on it, Rex’s smile continues to grow, and you can sense the support and affection he must have for these friends, mentees and in some cases, chosen family.
When asked why he freely gives so much of his time and energy, Rex puts it simply: “I care about the impact we can make in a life and our city by what we do.” While Rex shares that his family was supportive when he came out as gay, there were still identity struggles to contend with, so his care runs deep in lived experience. “I care about the fact that some of our LGBTQ+ community is suffering. I’ve been there. It’s very difficult to know that we have human beings that are struggling with the kinds of things they are, and you really want the best for them, quickly. Sometimes it takes longer than expected so we must have patience.”
When Rex and his partner Chris find downtime, they enjoy family, travel, gathering with friends, attending artistic events, and eating out at locally owned restaurants. Naturally, everything comes back to community.
Board of Directors
John Walls is a highly accomplished senior communications executive with a distinguished career in corporate and brand public relations. Based in Dallas, TX, John has excelled in the public and private sectors, driving strategic communications plans that directly support business objectives. With expertise in various areas such as communications strategy, brand management, crisis communications, and thought leadership strategy, he has consistently delivered exceptional results.
Currently, John serves as Principal and Chief Communications Strategist at JWPR, LLC (www.jwpr.co), where he provides strategic communications counsel to corporate, start-up, and non-profit clients across industries such as retail, technology, travel and hospitality, and ophthalmic optics and visual health. He immerses himself in clients’ businesses to provide tailored communications solutions and collaborates effectively with internal teams, external partners, and vendors to execute comprehensive strategies. His expertise lies in leadership profile development, strategic media relations, and communications and content strategy.
Before his current role, John was Senior Director of Corporate Communications & Content Strategy at Neiman Marcus Group. In this role, he oversaw integrated corporate, crisis, brand, and internal communications, strengthening corporate and brand equity for the organization and its luxury retail brands. He successfully positioned Neiman Marcus Group as an innovative and digital organization, promoting key initiatives and managing milestone events. John also provided ongoing media training to executives, conducted ongoing risk assessments for the organization, and directed corporate thought leadership efforts.
Before joining Neiman Marcus Group, John was Hilton’s Director of Brand Public Relations, Luxury & Lifestyle Brands. In this role, he led all media relations efforts for Hilton’s luxury and lifestyle portfolio, driving global luxury traveler preference and consideration. He oversaw brand experience programs and successfully launched Canopy by Hilton, positioning Hilton as a transformative organization in the lifestyle hotel segment. John also played a key role in the launch of LXR Hotels & Resorts and managed multi-million-dollar budgets supporting the brands.
John’s professional journey also includes significant contributions at Hampton by Hilton, Cohn & Wolfe, Match.com, Golin Inc., and Paige Hendricks Public Relations Inc. He holds a Master of Professional Studies in Corporate Communications and Public Relations from Georgetown University and a Bachelor of Science in Public Relations and Advertising from Texas Christian University.
In addition to his professional accomplishments, John Walls is deeply committed to volunteerism and community engagement. He has dedicated his time and expertise to various organizations, including and outside of the LGBTQIA+ community, making a positive impact on important causes. As an Advocate at Dallas CASA for two years, he worked tirelessly to support and advocate for children in the foster care system, working directly on cases and ensuring that the children’s voices and needs were heard and met. John also served as a Board Member at Fashion Group International, Inc., for a two-year term, where he contributed his strategic insights and industry knowledge to promote the growth and development of the fashion industry. At Team DC, a charitable organization established to educate the LGBTQ+ community on the benefits of individual and team sports participation, he sat on the Board and held the role of Development Chair for a two-year term. Additionally, John was an active member of the Event Planning Committee at Black Tie Dinner, Inc., contributing to the organization’s efforts to raise funds and awareness for human rights causes. His volunteerism highlights his dedication to making a difference in the community and supporting organizations that strive for positive change.
John has received numerous honors and awards throughout his career, including three coveted NMG Best Awards, Georgetown University’s “Hoya Professional 30” recognition, and the Hilton Circle of Excellence Corporate PR Director of the Year accolade. With his extensive expertise in communications strategy, team development, and professional storytelling, John continues to significantly impact the field of communications, driving successful initiatives that support business growth and enhance brand reputation.
Board of Directors
Roscoe Compton-Kelly has served as a Board Member of Dallas Hope Charities since 2018, in roles as board chair and board member. He is a passionate advocate for LGBTQIA+ youth and providing resources, specifically for the LGBTQIA+ homeless population. Roscoe also supports the efforts of Dallas Hope Charities and many other LGBTQIA+ nonprofits as his alter ego, Shantae Morgan. As Shantae, Roscoe has raised thousands of dollars for local North Texas LGBTQIA+ organizations over the last 7 years.
In his formal day role, Roscoe Compton-Kelly serves as the Chief Executive Officer (CEO) for Education Opens Doors, leading strategic partnership efforts and donor relations for both earned and philanthropic efforts. In his role as CEO, he leads the cultivation, relationship management and strategy around EOD partners and donors.
A Texas native Compton-Kelly, and his husband Brian, an educator in the Dallas area, are actively involved in the Dallas community. Roscoe not only serves on the board of Dallas Hope Charities, but is also a Board Member for LGBT Outdoors, and a singing board member of the world-renowned Turtle Creek Chorale.
Board of Directors
Brandon Poland (he, him) has been providing marketing and business development in the behavioral health field for the past six years with a focus on mental health and substance use disorder treatment. Prior to that, he worked for the State of Texas for many years in criminal justice and investigations. His mission has always been to be a safe and sane person for people who are seeking help. Brandon strives to be part of the light at the end of the tunnel for those that he works with, both professionally and personally. Brandon has also had the pleasure of serving on the Board of Dallas Hope Charities since 2021, which provides transitional living and empowerment services to LGTBQ+ young adults facing homelessness.
Board of Directors, Vice Chair
Heather Bonfield is an accomplished Executive Coach who is passionate about her clients’ successes in the workplace. Seeing the growth of her clients as they discover more about themselves and what they want from their careers fuels her enthusiasm for coaching and training. Heather’s experience as an executive in Fortune 150 companies as well as an entrepreneur with numerous ventures gives her a unique perspective on what questions to ask to help clients tap into their potential while co-creating positive change.
Heather Bonfield is a:
Heather holds a BBA in Finance from the Texas McCombs School of Business as well as an Organizational Improvement Certificate from the Human Dimensions of Organizations department of The College of Liberal Arts at The University of Texas at Austin. Heather has a fervor for
philanthropic work including fundraising, volunteering, and board service. She has served on numerous boards including The Junior League of Dallas, Dallas Hope Charities, The Texas Exes, and many more.
Heather is a graduate of the T. Boone Pickens Leadership Institute, the ADL’s Glass Leadership Institute, and Leadership Dallas, the Dallas region’s premier leadership program. Heather is a member of the International Coaching Federation’s Global and North Texas chapters.
Visit www.beyourbestatwork.net to learn more about Heather and her work.
Lisa Stewart retired as the Director of Outreach at Highland Park United Methodist Church (HPUMC) in December 2021 after taking this position in July 2011, Lisa also worked as a program coordinator in the Youth Ministry at HPUMC for 4 years.
Lisa has a BA in Religious Education and a BA in Psychology from Centenary College of Louisiana. She has an MS in Social Work from the University of Texas at Arlington. She
has previously worked at Memorial Drive United Methodist Church in Houston and Baylor University Medical Center in Dallas.
Before coming to joining the HPUMC staff in May 2007, Lisa was a stay-at-home mom for 13 years. During that time Lisa was active as a volunteer at HPUMC and in the community as well as in her daughters’ schools. Lisa has served on the Board of Directors at CitySquare and Dallas Hope Charities.
As a person of faith, Lisa believes that local faith communities should work to fight poverty and promote justice. She hopes by her serving with Dallas Hope Charities that she can bring more faith-based organizations to support Dallas Hope Charities and work to repair some of the harm that has been done by some faith communities to the LGBTQIA+ community. All people are children of God and should feel the love of God expressed through communities of faith.
In her role at HPUMC, Tamika Perry was Lisa’s colleague. Lisa believes Tamika is the right person to lead Dallas Hope Charities and hopes to support her in her work by
serving on the Board.
She is married to Ken and together they have three daughters and two adorable grandchildren. They enjoy travel and family time at the lake.
Housing Program Manager
jtorres@dallashopecharities.
Biography
Jordan Rodriguez Torres joined the Dallas Hope Charities team in the summer of 2023 to become more involved with the LGBTQIA+ community. They have a passion for helping others and have been able to assist with a variety of individuals including special education programs in school districts, caregiving for geriatrics in assisted living facilities, foster care, and The Department of Family and Protective Services.
Jordan has a background in behavior management and received a BS in Applied Behavioural Analysis from Purdue Global. Their partner has experienced homelessness in the past, thus Jordan has a drive to assist those in the LGBTQIA+ community so that the impact of homelessness can have a lessened effect on them. They are committed to serving Dallas Hope Charities housing program by helping it grow and thrive amidst this political climate.
Jordan was born an Airforce Brat, as others would call it, in England and have lived in several states in North America before settling in Texas. When they are not growing DHC’s housing program, you can find them playing Magic: The Gathering at their favorite game stores, or at home with their partners and dogs, playing video games, board games, or watching anime.