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*To protect the privacy of this resident, the individual’s name has been changed in this story.
When Alex arrived at the Hope Center, the plan was simple: stay a few months, finish cosmetology school, and move on. But what started as a short-term solution quickly became a space of stability, growth, and unexpected healing. For the first time in months, Alex had a safe place to sleep, a supportive community, and access to services that would begin to unravel years of emotional strain.
Now, with a few dozen hours left before completing his cosmetology license, Alex is dreaming big—life by a lake, a home-based salon, and maybe even a garden with tomatoes and okra.
Just over two months before finding shelter, Alex’s world flipped overnight. On the day he was supposed to graduate from hair school, his father kicked them out without warning. With no steady support system and nowhere to go, Alex loaded every personal belonging into his oversized car and began a two-month stretch of living on the edge.
He crashed on couches when possible, stayed with people he barely knew, and often returned to sleeping in his car. “The Home Depot parking lot served me really well,” he said, only half-joking. “I never liked saying I was homeless. I just said I was struggling. But I was drowning.”
His story isn’t just about a housing crisis—it’s also about a search for connection. Despite having family nearby, Alex was met with silence, distance, and cold shoulders. “My dad stopped calling me down for dinner. He wouldn’t even look at me,” he said. “I kept hoping for a conversation, not to move back, just to talk. But it never came.”
The Home Depot parking lot served me really well. I never liked saying I was homeless. I just said I was struggling. But I was drowning.
For Alex, finding the Hope Center wasn’t just a turning point—it was a lifeline. Initially, he thought he just needed a roof over his head while finishing school. But what he found went deeper. “People don’t know that they need community until they have it,” he said. “I thought I needed shelter, but I also needed someone to talk to.”
One of the most impactful services for Alex has been access to free therapy. “I’ve been raw-dogging my feelings for 18 years,” he joked. “I didn’t realize how much I needed someone to listen—and not feel like a burden for sharing.”
Beyond therapy, the Hope Center’s connections to dental care, medical support, and job readiness programs have helped stabilize more than just housing. “Even when I have hard weeks, I know I have someone to talk to,” he said. “Someone’s there, whether it’s a therapist, another resident, or a staff member.”
When asked what advice he’d give to others in similar situations, Alex didn’t hesitate. “You’re not a burden. You deserve the basics: shelter, support, safety. Don’t downplay your situation. That’s how people fall through the cracks.”
People don’t know that they need community until they have it. I thought I needed shelter, but I also needed someone to talk to.
Though his time at the Hope Center may be temporary, the changes Alex has experienced are lasting. “I want to create the community I’m looking for,” he said. “Whether that’s with people, pets, or even plants, community is a mindset.”
Morgan has built her career in the business side of tech, leading marketing and strategy initiatives at companies like IBM, Forrester Research, and Reforge. Now an independent consultant and career coach, she helps professionals navigate growth and change. When she’s not working, you’ll likely find her salsa dancing in San Francisco.
